PREPARING TO GET MARRIED SOON
1. *EVERYONE YOU MARRY HAS A WEAKNESS*
Only God has no weakness. Every rose flower has
its own thorn. If you focus too much on your
spouse’s weakness, you can’t get the best out of
2. *EVERYONE YOU MARRY HAS A DARK HISTORY*
No one is an Angel, therefore, avoid digging one’s
past. What matters is the present life of your
partner. Old things are passed away. try to forgive
and forget. The past can’t be change. So Focus on
the present and the future!
3. *EVERY MARRIAGE HAS IT’S OWN
Marriage is not bed of roses. Every shinning
marriage has gone through its own test of hot and
excruciating fire. True love is proved in time of
challenge. Fight for your marriage! Make up your
mind to stay with your spouse in time of needs.
Remember this is the vow you made on your
4. *EVERY MARRIAGE HAS DIFFERENT LEVELS OF
Don’t compare your marriage with anyone! We can
never be equal, some will be far in front and others
far behind. To avoid marriage stresses, be patient,
work hard and with time, your marriage dreams
shall come true.
5. *TO MARRY IS TO DECLARE A WAR*
When you marry, you must declare a war against
enemies of marriage. Some of the enemies of
marriage are: Ignorance, Prayerlessness,
Unforgiveness, Adultery, Third Party Influence,
Stinginess, Stubbornness, Lack Of Love, Rudeness,
Wife battery, Laziness, Divorce etc. Be ready to
fight to maintain your marriage zone.
6. *THERE IS NO PERFECT MARRIAGE*
There is no ready made marriage anywhere.
Marriage is hard work, volunteer yourself and
perfect it daily. Marriage is like a CAR with Gear oil,
gear box, back hassles and If this parts are not
properly maintained, the car will brake down
somewhere along the road and exposing the
occupant to unhealthy circumstances. – Many of us
are careless about our marriage… Are you? If you
are, pls pay attention to your marriage.
7. *GOD CANNOT GIVE YOU THE COMPLETE
PERSON YOU DESIRE*
He (God) gives you, him or her in the form of raw
materials in order for you to mould what you desire.
You may desire a woman who can pray for 1 hours
but your wife can only pray for 30 minutes. With
your love, prayer and encouragement, she can
8. *TO MARRY IS TO TAKE A RISK*
You cannot predict what will happen after marriage,
as situation may change, so, leave a room for
adjustment. Pregnancy may not come in the next 4
years. You may get marry to her because she’s
slim but she becomes 100% fatter after a child. He
may lose his beautiful job for years that you have to
take the financial responsibility of the family until he
gets a new job. But with God by your side, you will
smile at last.
9. *MARRIAGE IS NOT A CONTRACT, IT IS
Marriage needs total commitment, love is the glue
that makes a couple stick together. Divorce starts
in the mind. Never think of divorce! Never threaten
your spouse with divorce. Choose to remain
married! God hates divorce
10. *EVERY MARRIAGE HAS A PRICE TO PAY*
Marriage is like a bank account. It is the money you
deposit into your bank account that you can
withdrawn. If you don’t deposit love, peace and
care into your marriage, you are not a candidate of
a blissful home. There is no free love in marriage,
You cannot love without giving and sacrificing.